A list of ten things I like about myself. I am not modest and this was easy.
1. I'm game for whatever
Want to go to a bar where they open champagne with a sword? Ok.
Can you help me move? Sure.
Here try this squid. Mmm.
Let's tile an entire retaining wall with student-made mosaics. Yeah!
Come with me to Chicago/the cemetery/the high school football game/the bar/the storage locker/the Social Security office/the concert. I'm there.
Try this craft. Yay.
2. I meet people where they are
I am really good at not assuming that someone comes from the same perspective as I do. I find this is something that other people do not do for me very often. This makes me good at negotiating and working with children and adults with all sorts of abilities and backgrounds.
3. I am a very, very good teacher
I am. Even in the midst of what I do now, which is essentially test, test, and retest children who have already plateaued at age 13 in the middle of a dumpster fire of a failing school, I try my best to bring in good teaching. I want to be good, and I feel bad when I know I've phoned it in. These days, just showing up is good teaching where I work (and larger than that, in a nation that values teachers for their cheapness, not their expertise).
4. I have central heterochromatic blue and yellow eyes
My eyes are my best feature and they're weird. Less as I get older--the yellow and blue have blended more in the middle, but I still like my yellow ringed pupils.
5. My house is very clean
I thought I was bad at this. I'm not. I was just fighting a losing battle against a hoarder in a house constantly in the cycle of disrepair - try to repair - fail to repair - hire to repair - complain.
Now I have a clean tidy well-repaired house.
6. I know how to do a lot of things
I really do. I like learning things, but some things I know at a deep level. Like quilting--I asked a friend about her grandmother's quilts and she finally cut me off and told me I was too specific, that she didn't know the answers or even the terms I was referring to. I realized last year that I had become the husband I wished I'd had, but I'm also good at grandmother skills.
7. I can be your cut man
November 2013 Text Conversation:
in your corner. Talk anytime, good night
John: Bridge you are not only in my corner, you're like a cut man
Me: What's a cut man?
John: In boxing your face swells. Your eyes blow up your nose gets broke. A cut man's job is to push out the swelling. Seal cuts with salve and open your nostrils with ammonia to keep you in the fight.
Me: Gah! Too many details!
John: LOL There will come a time when I have beaten the tar out of life and you will know. Your effort, your time, your investment won't be for nothing.
8. I have never pushed my children to have the same activities, profession, hobbies, or interests as I do.
Maeve loves theater and dancing and singing and tried wrestling and lacrosse. Sophia is likely going to work for the Forest Service or some such as a wilderness first responder and a forester and plays piano and did Irish dance. Leo plays volleyball and video games . None of them knits, sews, quilts, or plans to teach. This is good.
9. I wear a size 10 or 10.5 (US) shoe
This means I get a lot of fun shoes on clearance and men's running shoes and boots and whatnot are within my reach.
10. I'm a great friend to go out with because I will laugh and cry and drink and eat cheesecake with you all night and my hair will always look worse than yours and I've come to accept this.